Dear 11 year-old self, This is your 19 year-old self talking. In a lot of ways, you will change drastically [and that’s a good thing.] But in others, you will stay fundamentally the same [and that’s also a good thing.] You’re 11 and life is still relatively easy for you – apart from the learning how to cope with menstruation part. I still don’t like that aspect of our life, but it is what it is. I don’t want to say “a part of being a girl” because not all girls menstruate. This may come as a shock for you. It did for me, probably two and a half years ago. But… everything you know about gender is wrong. It’s not your fault specifically; it’s society’s. Forget about those rigid gender roles because YOU don’t even embody a rigid gender role. There are people...